basically never trust anyone who whines constantly about the people who have “cut them off” for “no reason” and makes said people out to be heartless jerks, etc
speaking as someone who has cut people out of their life
it’s not an easy thing to do, and people don’t generally do that sort of thing without a good reason.
nobody is entitled to be a part of someone else’s life. Find anyone who expresses a sense of entitlement like that to be highly suspect, because this is evidence that they may not have very good boundaries and may be in denial about the effects of their behavior.
all of this. bonus points if it follows a tirade about what an awful, abusive person the other person was, because, uh, people who realize and acknowledge they were abused do not sit around whining about how their abuser doesn’t talk to them anymore
THIIIIIIISS
